Buenos Aires Sunday 1st April


Sunday 01 Apr 2007

I have been here for just over a week, but it feels like a month: finding my way around a new city, learning how to do things the Argentine way, taking a new pace on life: both quick and slow, and dancing tango.

Oscar, who spends half of the year in Toronto with his Canadian wife Mary, is my tango teacher. In three lessons taken me from diffident incompetence to the stage where tango is becoming just possible. Oscar is just 10 minutes away from my apartment, in Bartolome Mitre, straight off the busy street through a high wrought iron glazed door, along a deep, dark corridor, up a marble staircase to his studio which perches at the top of the house.

There he teaches the occasional student, but more importantly, plans his next venture: his tango academy. His parents famously ran a tango milonga many years ago, and so this will be full circle for him. 

After our lesson (which lasts as long as it needs...an hour, or an hour and a half) we go for coffee, to talk about tango and life, about intention, destiny, women and desire, substance and hope.

I have now attended three milongas to observe rather than to dance. The first, Nino Bien in Humberto Primo 1462, was like stepping back to the 1930s. Tangueras of all ages sat on one side of the room and  men on the other. Attracting a partner is a skill which needs to be learned. The cabeceo, an almost imperceptible eye contact, secures the dance. The follower will respond and nod (the mirada) whereupon the leader will rise without haste, walk over to his partner who will only rise as he reaches her table. He will wait at the side of the floor and she will approach and be taken into the embrace, then gently drawn into a trance-like dance, her eyes closed, her head against his face or chest. The result is spectacular, and only possible because of the culture that conceived it.

My first dance was with an Argentine tanguera who was placed so close to my table at the second milonga, that we had to talk. She was tall and striking and had danced for a year. She agreed to dance and was most gentle for my first attempt. Tonight, Oscar expects me to dance under his watchful eye. He is to introduce me to his friends who attend this special milonga in the city. 

Life in Buenos Aires is a combination of western European civilisation and chaos. Things work, every so often, like the buses, but not the trains, like the traffic but not the pavements, like the tango but not the government. The city is a rich tapestry of ideas, political demonstration, conversation, passion and survival. The rich are rich and the poor are very poor. The peso is weak, but there is hope....and there is style. It draws you in to its exciting and challenging ways.

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